This will be the most controversial post I have ever written, and there is a high possibility that I may be even labelled as a 'sexist' when this goes out to an audience number of much more powerful than any media can ever achieve! So, the risk of my fallen death starts right here.. ;)
If a guy were to ever tell a girl that she is beautiful, and that he have fallen head over heels right from the second he laid eyes onto her, the interpretion is "You look damn hot, and I can't wait to get laid with you!!" All the sweet nothings whispered to your ears on that first night you both met, is just the art of seduction and very much the start of foreplay before the actual game goes into full play. However, if a girl were to come on agressively on that cutie seated alone at the bar, she will most probably be taken as a prostitute or if not a S.A.W.- the newest addition to the long, long list of names guys so generously bethroned onto us. Simply hate this term which if you haven't managed to guess it by now, means Sexually Agressive Woman. Where's the justice in this when guys get away with almost zero guilt after an 'ONS' - obviously stands for one night stand, and the stupid girl may be living in fantasy of a possible boy-girl relationship somewhere? The following day after the night of passion will simply be the worse ever wakeup call for the girl. She will find herself totally out of that guy's social network in just a day! Facebook friends? MSN contact? Sorry, but you just won't be there anymore..
Maybe I should not determine the whole basket of apples to be rotten, by just 1 or 2 bad examples. Ok, let's then talk about a proper relationship. In an ideally perfect boy-girl relationship, there should be equity and trust between the 2 parties. So, when there is a sudden increase in the number of female friends, and I am talking about the really hot ones; on the boyfriend's FB account, shouldn't there be a call for some form of explanation? To the guy, that's just normal and the girlfriend's just making a mountain out of a molehill! Fine, if you think so. What about those who simply thought using a lousy reason like 'spam', deserve the benefit of doubt from his girlfriend? That couldn't be more lame than anything else. Think, if this were to come from the girl instead; will the treatment from the guy be the same as how he was expecting from his girlfriend. We all know the answer.
Trust me, there are bound to have silly girls who comply to every single instruction laid down by the boyfriend. Worse, there is an infinite number of jerks out there who uses the girl's softest spot for them, and slowly savouring them, taking away their dignity and confidence day by day.
It is of course the nicest thing to be in love, but it will not be when you are totally blinded by love..
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