Birthday & Jokes

This is so ridiculously funny, listen.. "When the telephone ring, Green Green Green. I Pink up the phone and asked Blue are you? White do you want? You don't Purplely call me. If I am angry, I will not call you Black!" Damn hilarious, isn't it? - a portion from the local movie "Happiness Matters". Go rent the dvd, if you need a laugh badly!

You may think that I am in high spirits since I can tell jokes. Sorry, you are wrong. The jokes are so much needed, exactly because I'm in a foul mood..

I turned 31 on 29th Oct, and to be honest, I wasn't exactly happy about this milestone at all. It feels weird to be this old when I ain't even feeling like I'd aged. There were a total of 5 birthday celebrations, and 4 birthday cakes. The first cake came as a surprise at my workplace. My dearest colleagues pulled a stunt on me that was almost uncoded by the birthday girl herself, if the cake hasn't appear soon enough. My sweet mum & Rianne also had a cake waiting for me at home, on the day of my birthday!

The 3rd celebration was the one I least wanted it to happen. It was at school, where our class always celebrate birthdays of people in that particular month. At first they left out me, which was a good thing. But then our kind lecturer went through the register, and found me to be one of the birthday people. The whole class sang, and I'm sorry to say that I wasn't very smilely at that time. Probably because I was a little annoyed at my project mates for showing me 'smelly' faces, when I didn't turn up for our project discussion. I had my reasons!! Already informed one of them via sms, so if they want to be mad, let them be!

I had the most fun in my last birthday celebration with my bestest chums - the F5! Rianne, the party pooper (yes, she tagged along!), however did ruined some of the fun times. At the celebration, we welcomed another member to our gang, our ex-classmate of sec 4D - Y. It was great seeing Y again, especially when we haven't met for more than a decade. I bet she was enjoying herself, coz you could hear her laughter the whole time during the gathering! Y will also join us in our very exlusive X'mas gift exchange annual practice this year. I really wonder who did she pick? Who is she getting the gift for? Me? Heeheehee..

Wonder who enjoyed my birthday celebrations the most? Answer below :

Swimming

I was thinking, it's going to be doubly hard for Rianne to want to get into a pool of water, after an unsuccessful attempt at the baby swimming centre last month..

Rianne, Jayden & Joelle had their first go at swimming (not Jayden's first though) at a pro swimming & massage centre for babies, located at Plaza Singapura. The three babies each occupied a tub, filled with water warm enough for them to soak in. After some flexing exercises to warm up the babies, Joelle went into the tub with a neck float attached onto her neck of course. There was no negative response, so Rianne went next. She screamed the minute her body touches the water! We tried distracting her attention with some bath toys and kept talking to her. She continued crying, and it got worse when Jayden boy, supposed to be more experienced in the swimming field, wailed when he was put into the tub!!

Rianne had to be taken out, as her crying did not stop. I only managed to snap a few pictures of her better composure before we had to end the swimming completely.

Joelle, the baby who swam first was the last one standing; when even the most expert of the three - her brother, Jayden was taken out of water the first. She was enjoying herself in the water, kicking her legs and the less bothered by the neck float that was resting on her shoulders. I wonder why Rianne didn't like it..

Anyway, I tried again to expose Rianne to swimming, in a public pool this time. I thought she would be fine if she knows that I'm going down with her, and that there's going to be no neck float. Indeed, she was ok and was having a ball of time in the baby pool. The pictures below will best relate the misery Rianne undergone (heehee!) at the baby swimming centre, and the delight she got from swimming again.. =)


Can tell at once Rianne isn't too happy about getting into the tub..

The teardrop she shed is still on her face, eventhough she has stopped crying


A totally different expression from the last swimming experience

Rianne definitely enjoying herself this time round..

Emotional Breakdown

I did.., yesterday at work.

My boss had sent me an invite for a catch up in her office yesterday afternoon, and that was when the breakdown happened.. I knew she had wanted to talk about my long absence from work, when Rianne & I took turn in falling ill.

Initially I had only the flu influenza with fever, cough, runny nose and rashes, all symptoms from the irritating bug! I did not get any better after 2 days of rest & medication, and was visiting another doctor in hope to be treated and healed more quickly. It didn't happen, and in fact my condition got worse. On Thursday, I suffered giddiness, and was vomitting the very first thing after I woke up. Everything I ate came out as puke. My stomach was so empty, but I simply felt nothing. Not hungry at all, just giddy.

I don't think I had passed anything to Rianne because she seem so fine than her sickly mummy. However, we do notice her getting cranky easily; and that could possibly be due to teething.

Maybe I have an 'itchy' mouth, coz Rianne had a fever just one day after I went back to work. Her fever was not only persistent, but it hardly came down. We gave her the medicine prescribed by the GP at the clinic downstairs where I stay, for 4 times and her temperature still remain relatively high. I decided it is not wise to carry on with the medication which doesn't work, instead we should take immediate action to bring her temperature down. So we took her face hanky, soaked in chilled water, and start to sponge her. Rianne screamed the instant the cold fabric touches her skin! I really hate to see her wailing her guts out like that, but I have no choice. After the sponging, we were quite relieved to see her temperature going down to 37.7 degrees celsius. But that didn't last too long. Very soon, her fever returned and her temperature rose quicker than before. I knew I had to send her to the hospital and seek immediate medical treatment.

At the hospital, the doctor administered a dose of fever medicine and put her on an urine collection bag whereby they need the urine to test for the presence of any infection. We continued sponging her, and needless to say, her screaming sequelled there in the hospital. The initial test results show some abnormality, and Rianne's urine had to be sent for further intensive check. Luckily, the second results came back normal. Rianne was able to go home after her fever went away, which was 3.5 hrs later at the hopsital.

If you think I would be able to have it easier with Rianne after her fever is not there, then I'm sorry to say that you are very wrong. The following day, Rianne broke out in rashes all over her body. There were the most rashes on her abdomen and back. Slowly they appeared even on her neck and face!

Again I had to bring Rianne to the doctor.. The rashes were diagnosed as the 'clearing signs' of her viral fever, and they are totally harmless and non-contagious. Another working week gone in a flash..

I was out for almost 2 consecutive weeks, and I wasn't accessing to our office webmail or doing much work during this period. My boss was frustrated at the fact that I had missed an urgent email and not had the assignment done in the allocated time frame. She said she feel that my commitment at work is no longer here, and it is being unfair to her and the company. She then asked me what I want, like do I still want to stay in the company, or I rather give up the job.

Don't know how I felt I suffered an injustice in that conversation, and my tears started rolling like there is no tomorrow! I sobbed while explaining and apologizing to my boss for my overlook in that email. I felt terrible, and not only that; I finally experience the fear of losing my job.

I think I took positivity, motivation, and discipline out from that brief catch up. I pushed myself a little so as not to fall straight into depression. I want to be able to accompolish all the KPIs I set for myself, and come end of the year, I would reap profits (results) from my hard work put in from now on. Wish me luck!

Cheers,

Mama R

To the Zoo!!

"We are going to the zoo, zoo, zoo.. We are going to the zoo, zoo, zoo.." I have been singing this to Rianne for a couple of weeks, and finally we went to the zoo on the Hari Raya public holiday.

There were a total of 7 of us - 4 adults, and 3 babies. Can you imagine the high ratio of infants to us adults, can at anytime make us call for help and breakdown if all 3 were to stage a protest at us?! Lucky, that didn't happen.

It was really an enjoyable outing, the happiest I had been in a long, long time. All the babies were well-behaved, and they appear to be having a ball of time (or did I idealise it? hahaha..). We were prepared that the babies might get cranky due to the heat and fatigue, and thus we got strollers, carry-slings, and portable electric fans all ready.


Rianne sling-ed in the front of mummy

After a quick brunch at KFC, we began our zoo tour with me carrying Rianne in the sling, little Jayden walking on his own but with his mummy holding his hands, and my brother-in-law slinging baby Joelle. Think the only baby who could probably make out what was in the exhibits, was the eldest one Jayden. Nevertheless, the two girls were still displaying expressions of curiousity at some really close-up animals.


The excited Rianne at the rhinocerus exhibit!!


Soon, Joelle started to show signs of fatigue..

And finally Rianne, completely K-O (Knocked Out)!

By late noon, the younger babies were completely exhausted; and so are us adults. We finished viewing the last few exhibits quickly and left the zoo for lunch at Sembawang Shopping Centre.

We needed so badly to rest our feet, and our arms (achy from carrying the babies the whole day!).. but not Jayden boy, who is forever so obsessed with Barney, the purple dinosaur! And he had dragged little Rianne along too.. (evidence below!!)

Little Junior is 7 months old!

2 blog posts later, Rianne is 7 months old! Wow, how fast children grow man!! Hahahaha..

We are now introducing Rianne to semi-solid food, which isn't considered too late to begin as I have known of 1 year old toodlers still suckling their mama's boobs at meal times! Rianne will have brown rice cereal on its own at noon, and porridge cooked with ikan bilis, dried scallops, potatoes, carrots and even broccoli sometimes, will be taken for dinner.

I have also changed a different follow-up (for 6 months old onwards) formula milk for Rianne. Her previous infant formula from this "SXX" brand was still fine, but when we continued with the follow-up formula; I found that she has problem finishing each feed. Also the milk powder was never dissolved completely, leaving chunks of residue on the milk bottle; and this makes washing so difficult. Especially when outside, we won't have the baby bottle detergent with us; so the bottle is hardly very clean.

I decided to ask for samples from other brands available in the market, and see which one meets my expectations. Surprisingly, the second one I tried does. It is a hypo-allergenic formula, gives all the required nutrients, and most importantly; Rianne likes it! She can finish the milk, and sometimes not even enough for her. This "NXX" brand of milk doesn't produce any grease on the milk bottle, so washing is like a breeze!

Well, I couldn't believe it when I discovered that Rianne was teething! She had been cranky, and keeps putting her fingers into her mouth, then pulling them out abruptly. She was also having problem drinking her milk. My colleague who express milk together with me in the office, was complaining about her daughter's teething woes. The syptoms were similar, except that her girl had fever and Rianne didn't. I told Annie Mummy, and she confirmed my suspicion when she rubbed Rianne's gums and found jaggered tooth buds on her upper teeth bed..

Rianne now has 2 teethers, one in the shape of a zebra and the other, looks like a biscuit and a cookie. She loves most the biscuit & cookie from Combi Toys, and always reach for them when she see me holding them. To ease her teething discomfort, I bought a teething gel which can be rubbed onto her gums whenever she's feeling sore.

I remember my nephews Joaquin & Jayden looked so adorable with their bugs bunny tooth, and I really can't wait to see baby Rianne looking like Bugs! Hahahaha..

Here's a video of Rianne having porridge for the first time, super cute her!! ;p

6 months old, and getting naughty!!

Baby Rianne loves hair accessories, of all sorts & shapes!!

However, sometimes she still get hair like Beckham..


Her first drumstick.. yummy!!

And after that, a poop in the potty!!

Rianne is 6 months old!

Being a preemie, it's not unusual for Rianne to be smaller in size than the other babies of her age. However, when her cousin Joelle, 2 months younger than her has the same weight as Rianne, I became rather conscious.

Rianne does drink lesser milk than Joelle, if you look at the intake per feed. My baby takes 80-100ml/120ml of breastmilk every 2 hourly, and the latter drinks 175-180ml formula milk at an interval of 4 hours. But on totality, Rianne actually has more milk than her younger cousin. Not forgetting the twice cereal feeds Rianne drinks with 70/80ml of breast milk.

My little talkative princess although smaller than her peers, is not developing any slower than any of them! Take her motor skills for example, she's learning to sit already (pictures as shown in previous post) and before she could even sit on her own; she's now taking baby walking steps on a walker! It was my mum's idea to put her in a walker, and surprisingly she managed to take several steps.. ermmm, however they are in the reverse direction which I don't know why! Hahaha..

The other thing which I am so proud of Rianne (and I'm very certain Annie Mummy is too) is, her ability to poo using a potty! Yes, you have not heard me wrongly; a potty. Some toddlers only learn and succeed pooing in a potty at the age of 1-2. My darling baby knows it's poo-poo time when granny flashes the brightly coloured (it's orange in colour!) potty after her morning feed, and another time after she had cereals. Now then I realised how baby poop actually look like in solid form, when it's not squashed in a diaper.. Nasty.

Rianne does have a few unusual habits, even at 6 months old. She shakes her legs when she is seated on people's laps and when she hears music. She loves to check herself out in the mirror, especially when her hair is being combed. She likes looking at you from the mirror, and then at your face just so that she knows it's is the same person. She enjoys watching the telly, but not animation and the cartoony stuff though she still like the nursery rythmes dvds we got at home.

She loves it when you play peek-a-boo with her, and the more I play with this little bundle of joy, the more I wish I can stay with her all day and night..